Problems

Problems

Problems, We are all born with our share of them. Some of us face them at the dawn of our lives while some of us have to wait till the dusk of  life's twilight.  But there is no single person on Earth who ever came and went without being stuck in a quandary at least once. 

A Herculean task  for people in such predicaments thus becomes to come out of it unscathed. But do we really do what is the need of that hour?

A majority of people whine about the myriads of problems they have in Life, some act like magnets to sympathies while some just cry, contemplate and accept the problem as a part of their lives. A few take a step further and fight the battle with their problems but those brave-hearts belong to a fringe which are at the pinnacle of the macrocosm of problem-solving.  We are not talking about that faction because even I do not belong to that group. Most of us are "Whiners" while they are "Winners".

Are the problems we face individually so adverse that nothing on the face of this Earth can solve it? 

The transfer from the team of "Whiners" to the team of "Winners" requires courage. In moments of despair, we have to look around ourselves and the source of courage will emanate.

Those sources can be anything. Think of that person who lost her hands very young yet she possesses a degree. Think of that person who lost her parents very young and still goes on to become the CEO of a company. Think of that person who lived a precarious life for 20 years and yet clears the much coveted IAS exam. Think of that person who is blind yet explores the world.

We have many options to eradicate the problems from our life, good or bad but we have many. Suicide is also an option but the people pondering about ending their lives due to a problem think they are leaving this world for good. They forget that the moment they leave this world is encumbered with more grief, more sorrow, more problems.

The solutions to problems are within us, they depend upon the choices we make. It is difficult to avoid problems from one's life but once it appears the duration of suffering depends upon the choices we make. We might choose the team of "Whiners" but keep one thing in mind they never win ergo the process for their team selection is the easiest. "Winners" don't select their candidates easily,there is a rigorous procedure that requires an arduous journey to reach the end but the few selected in their squad always face this world with head held high.

Which team would you rather be "Winners" or "Whiners" ?

Think about it the next time you are stuck at an impasse.